I used to burn rubber at every light, mean mugging everything there was, cause that was my attitude.
A lot of things depend on your attitude. If it is good that you seek, it is good that you will find.
There is no greater hindrance to the progress of thought than an attitude of irritated party-spirit.
Is your problem really your problem, or is it your attitude towards the problem that's your problem?
I don't think it's a healthy thing in your personal life to go around with that never-sure attitude.